Published- May 4, 2026

Daughters of the Most High God, did you know that YOU are a Princess and that your Heavenly Father loves you so very much?

God is obsessed with you and extremely protective of you!
He knows the heart and true intentions of people. He sees what you don’t see. He hears what you don’t hear. He knows everything: past, present, and future (the cycles, patterns, and behaviors of you AND them).

He has His best planned, prepared, and preserved just for YOU! YOU are rare and precious to God and not just anyone or everyone should have easy access to you. That’s not being stuck-up or arrogant, it’s called being SELECTIVE!

You can show the love of Jesus and still limit access to who gets to see and experience the version of you that requires time, trust, honesty, loyalty, consistency, respect, and honor.

It’s okay to be selective about who gets your time, energy, focus, heart, and talent. Steward these well! You can’t pour into everyone. You can’t be vulnerable around just anyone.
Some people want to weaponize your vulnerability!They only want proximity to exploit you, drain you, use you, or to destroy you.

NOT ALL, but SOME!! You have to discern who the SOME are. This can be challenging for those of us who have big hearts and want to embrace everyone.

It requires a high level of discipline and discernment because the enemy oftentimes comes as a wolf in sheep’s clothing AND hurt people, hurt people.

If someone violates their access to you OR if you gave access prematurely, don’t be unforgiving and bitter.
Just reclaim your access, limit their access, and continue to walk in the love of God. Don’t allow someone else’s mishandling of you cause you to become mean, bitter, cold, spiteful, hateful, vengeful, and to step outside your Christ-like character.
•Heal from it
•Grow from it
•Be a better woman because of it

When I look at the life of Jesus, I see how He was full of compassion for the marginalized and those purely seeking Him (whether out of need or belief); and judged those with impure motives and intentions and held them accountable.

So what am I saying? Daughters of the Most High God, keep your heart pure and open but guarded, and rest in who the Father called and created YOU to be!
* Rest in your femininity (Psalms 139:14, Song of Solomon 4:7, Psalms 46:5, Proverbs 31:25-26).
* Rest in the truth that you are precious, royalty, and a rare jewel (Isaiah 62:3, 1 Peter 2:9)!
* Keep your heart open and guarded, but be discerning and be disciplined about who you open up to, your vulnerability is a gift that needs to be earned (Proverbs 4:23).
* Be selective about who gets your time, energy, focus, and talent. Limit easy access (Matthew 7:6).
* Set the standard for how people treat you by loving God (Deut. 6:5, Matthew 22:37), loving yourself well (1 John 4:19), walking in the love of God (Mark 13:31), having boundaries (Proverbs 4:23), and holding yourself (Romans 14:12, Galatians 6:4-5) and others accountable (Proverbs 27:17).

Remember, YOU are a Precious & Rare Daughter of the Most High God! AT THE BARE MINIMUM you deserve to be safe, protected, loved, honored, cherished, respected, and taken care of. That should be non-negotiable in ALL relationships (not just romantic relationships).